Hi Streamers!
I'm here for a bit this morning catching up on some work, but still busy as a bee.

I found out Tuesday just before leaving for cheer camp that Tay had 2 softball games back-to-back starting at 6:00. I left the gym for cheer about 5:00, ran home to freshen up, & off to the ball field - getting there just in time. They're doing really well & won both games!

I think we'll have a really good team again next year too. We only lost 2 (very good ones!) to graduation, so that helps too.
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Today is the last day of our cheer camp & we've got a LOT to do in a short time. They've pretty much learned their half-time dance part of the show. Today will be going over that some, & learning the cheer immediately following the dance. The cheer has building in it, so we've got our work cut out for us. I can't have my "flyers" falling & getting hurt, so we'll focus on the ones who raise & hold them up a lot. We'll have from 2:30 until 4:00 to learn this part. At 4:00, the parents will be allowed to come in to watch each of the 3 squads perform their routines & video tape them, if they want. Prayers please!

This is "building". The one they raise up is the "flyer":
My "special" girl isn't doing much of anything except for hanging on or standing right up under a few of the other girls, disrupting us, & trying to eat her water bottle lid!

**double sigh** Her mother did show up for Tuesday & she was shocked at what the other's have already learned in 2 1/2 hours. Her daughter was...doing what she does...& her mother started yelling at her.

Then some tears fell. Poor girl. I'm prepared to pull her, if needed, but her mother promises she'll have it by the first game (mid-August). I just don't know.... Her mother has to learn it all too so she can help her. She is required to be at every practice, game, etc to tend with her daughter. Oh, she has Williams Syndrome. It's similar to Downs, I hear.
I've got my line-up fixed so that I can pull her out, if needed, & only have to move 2 girls over a bit. She might be holding a sign (which she'll probably tear up & eat!), but at least she'd be participating as best as she's able. I'm definitely going to have to do this while they build so she won't knock or pull someone down.
Her mother was told before try-outs that this is hard work, takes coordination, & is not one-on-one teaching. By the time they get to B team, they're supposed to already know the basics & what they're doing. She knows nothing. I feel so bad as she's a sweet girl, but I'm not equipped to deal with such. One of my mother's works at the local Cerebral Palsy center & will help me with her too. She's used to this & knows how to handle them.
I'll start having practice twice a week starting next week every Monday & Thursday evening. That'll help them to get better each week, & not forget any of what they're learning.
Anyhoo, I'll try to catch up on everyone's blogs starting next week. I miss being here with you all.
**group hug**
It would be boffo!
Just have the parents sign the waiver!
CYA!
I'm just saying!
Bear Hugs!
PolarB ;)
I'll find somewhere for her to be, if she can't learn the routine. She won't be left out, for sure.
Thanks!
Have a great weekend!
It seems mom is pushing her outside of her limits
And as a dance teacher and preschool teacher that had special needs children come her way over the years I know what it's like to try to incorporate them into your classes, be it dancing or academics. But looking back, I wouldn't trade those experiences in....
My son...just a few weeks ago, graduated with honors from high school... but there were some days when I didn't think he'd see his 8th birthday! Now he is a loveable, loving, kind, easy going young man who does not let his circumstances stand in his way. I used to think WHY GOD and all that crap when he was first diagnosed...
Now I say..."Now I know WHY God!" He made me a better mom and person and he made his sisters more empathetic.
I just spent 10 mins reading all about the syndrome. Fascinating. Have you read about it? Anything in there you can use? Have you talked to any special needs teachers for some pointers?
~r~
Thanks
Thanks for stopping by!
Hope you're doing great!
Have a good week
I talked to a teacher who had her & she said "I'll pray for you". Evidently, she's been a real hand-full in class too for 3 years.
All I can do is the best I can do. I think we'll all be in a learning process this year.
Thanks girl!
In a comment the night before...like 4am
As a dance and preschool teacher, when one would come my way (cerebral palsy, deaf, Downs, Autistic etc...) I found some things very frustrating...not so much the child as the attitude of the parents (some were in denial, some just weren't that helpful) and the lack of help I got from the "outside" with teachers, fellow teachers, my preschool boss etc... More often than not I got a "GOOD LUCK"
So I muddled through, made mistakes, learned on my OWN what would work and what was a dismal failure (much like with my son!)
Thankfully my son grew out of many of his eccentric little idiosyncracies and in fact went on to grad. this year with honors (albeit not like honors in honors classes, but it's all relative, HIS classes were just as hard for HIM as honors classes are for gifted kids!) And now he's just a calm, happy go lucky, creative young man who isn't any problem for me anymore behaviorally.
Just wanted to get that off my chest. I didn't mean to sound rude or heartless! I guess it's like if your black you can use the N word...if you are Jewish you can joke about being Jewish and no one bats an eye...if you are a parent to a special needs child you can call them pains in the asses! It comes from a place of love!
~r~
I'm sure my posts sounds bad, but I don't mean for them to. I guess I'm venting & trying to figure this out in my own mind as to how to deal. It's a day-to-day venture with lots of trial & error.
Anyhoo, have a great day!!
God knows what they are calling US behind our backs under our noses!