When an old man died in the geriatric ward of a small hospital near Tampa, Florida, it was believed that he had nothing left of any value.
Later, when the nurses were going through his meager possessions, they found this poem. Its quality and content so impressed the staff that copies were made and distributed to every nurse in the hospital.
One nurse took her copy to Missouri The old man's sole bequest to posterity has since appeared in the Christmas edition of the News Magazine of the St. Louis Association for Mental Health. A slide presentation has also been made based on his simple, but eloquent poem.
And this little old man, with nothing left to give to the world is now the author of this 'anonymous' poem winging across the Internet.
Crabby Old Man
What do you see nurses? .What do you see?
What are you thinking.....when you're looking at me?
A crabby old man, ...not very wise,
Uncertain of habit ......with faraway eyes?
Who dribbles his food.......and makes no reply.
When you say in a loud voice.....'I do wish you'd try!'
Who seems not to notice ..the things that you do.
And forever is losing .......... A sock or a shoe?
Who, resisting or not...........lets you do as you will,
With bathing and feeding .... the long day to fill?
Is that what you're thinking? Is that what you see?
Then open your eyes, nurse......you're not looking at me.
I'll tell you who I am .......... As I sit here so still,
As I do what you're bidding, ....as I eat at your will.
I'm a small child of ten.......with a father and mother,
Brothers and sisters ........who love one another.
A young boy of sixteen ..with wings on his feet
Dreaming that soon now. .......a lover he'll meet.
A groom soon at twenty .....my heart gives a leap.
Remembering, the vows......that I promised to keep.
At twenty-five, now ......... I have young of my own.
Who need me to guide .... and a secure happy home.
A man of thirty ........ my young now grown fast,
Bound to each other ........ with ties that should last.
At forty, my young sons ...have grown and are gone,
But my woman's beside me.......to see I don't mourn.
At fifty, once more, ........ babies play 'round my knee,
Again, we know children ...... my loved one and me.
Dark days are upon me ............. my wife is now dead.
I look at the future ...............I shudder with dread.
For my young are all rearing......young of their own.
And I think of the years... and the love that I've known.
I'm now an old man.........and nature is cruel.
'Tis jest to make old age ....look like a fool.
The body, it crumbles..........grace and vigor, depart.
There is now a stone........where I once had a heart.
But inside this old carcase ...... a young guy still dwells,
And now and again ......my battered heart swells
I remember the joys........... I remember the pain.
And I'm loving and living.............life over again.
I think of the years .all too few......gone too fast.
And accept the stark fact........that nothing can last.
So open your eyes, people ..........open and see..
Not a crabby old man. Look closer....see........ME!! Remember this poem when you next meet an older person who you might brush aside without looking at the young soul within.....we will all, one day, be there, too!
The best and most beautiful things of this world can't be seen or touched. They must be felt by the heart.
GOD BLESS !!! Hope you all have a great weekend!
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Have a great weekend!
The birds have all come back to our yard too. We love them. The hummers have been a bit slower in their return but I am seeing them more often as the weather heats up. Patience my dear... they will return.
Bear Hugs!
PolarB ;)
I thot it was an "educational" poem he wrote. The heart really does speak with we listen....
I wonder if that's the case with my hummingbirds? I hope they show up. Glad yours are so at least someone can enjoy them!
Have a great weekend, PB
My instructor gave that poem to the class when I took Nurse Aide Training.
I learned a lot during my clinicals. A nursing home can be a very sad place. The residents are often forgotten by family and friends. And of course sometimes the staff just doesnt care. But those folks still have a lot left in them and I walked away everyday with some new piece of knowledge.
Have a great weekend!
this is a very important message - people are not their age or disability or disease!
ron
If you wouldn't mind, I would love it if you could e-mail me a copy of that poem. I would love to share it with others. My e-mail is anna.opal1203@comcast.net.
Thanks and have a good day.
That's a great thing to be giving to Nurses & Aides in training. They NEED to know this & take it to heart.
The ones who are left alone by their family/friends have no one else except for the staff. I sure hope they're treated right.
Thanks P!
Thanks for coming by!
Your daddy was very lucky to have all of you around him. YOU all were very lucky too to have such a wonderful loving daddy. Mine was/is "daddy" to me too. I was always "daddy's little girl" even in to my adult years. I was with him when he passed June '92. I still miss him so much.
Treating our loved ones with respect is very important no matter what their age.
Thanks for coming by
I love the poem. It is worth remembering.
Thanks for stopping by & have a great day
We, all of us, do get old. My wife sometimes says, "Joe, you act like a damn kid!". When we get to my age, we do revert back. whenever I try to do something I use to do, I usually end up in great pain. The fact is, I can remember things that happened long ago, childhood comes clear, but I'll be damned if I can remember what I went out to the garage for! I suppose it's the beginning of something dreadful, I don't know.
No one can know the frustration of not being able to do the things you use to do. I can't imagine ole "Crabby's" total frustration. I'd be crabby too!
I use to drink a lot, I use to drink a lot, and do the Boogalu.
If I tried that now, I'd shake apart, and lose a lung or two.
But, if I can't dance I might as well roll over and die!
So I act like I can, so people will know I'm still alive!
Yahoo! Life is good
Joe
I love your poem - especially "So I act like I can, so people will know I'm still alive!"
Diane thinks I have too much on my mind, and I
sometimes can't distinguish betwee them. I think
a lot of people today are like that.
Excuse me, I have two Dogs wrestling in my computer
room, and there isn't enough room for that so I'm
gonna have to chew some asses and settle them down!
"Hey! Annie, Pongo, knock it off!"
Anyway, where was I, what was I saying, who am I!
Oh, I'm Joe